I never imagined the world in which we live.
For generations we have watched the unfolding of a movement variously named. It was called Women’s Lib when I was young, short for women’s liberation. Women were in bondage, we were told, if they could not be treated exactly the same as men.
Much of what the women’s rights movement advocated for was perfectly right and reasonable. For instance, women should be paid a fair wage and treated with proper respect. But that wasn’t enough for many Women’s Lib activists.
Radicals insisted we agree with them that men and women are no different. A woman can do anything a man can do. It wasn’t emphasized, but this implies that a man can do anything a woman can do. They are interchangeable. This obviously sets the stage for affirming same-sex relationships.
History shows that people with same-sex attraction have long been with us. But our culture decided to affirm this lifestyle by throwing out the ancient definition of marriage: one man and one woman committed to one another for life.
The traditional definition of marriage is built on God’s design for marriage and family: “This is why a man leaves his father and mother and bonds with his wife, and they become one flesh” (Genesis 2:24, CSB). It is a standard people often fail to live up to, but not one we should give up on. Imperfect efforts at the right goal are far better than hitting the wrong target.
Changing the legal definition of marriage was not the end. It enticed people to take another step away from God’s design and God’s ways. If men and women are interchangeable, then why keep speaking of humanity as male and female? Or, as it is now described: binary.
God’s design for humanity is revealed in Genesis 1. “So God created man in his own image; he created him in the image of God; he created them male and female” (Genesis 1:27, CSB). All my life, we have discussed the importance of what it means to be created in the image of God. We never thought the “male and female” part of the verse was worthy of such deep analysis.
But now, the arrogance of humanity has reached new heights of rebellion. Now, some people believe we can ignore the natural expressions of male and female and redefine gender with drugs and operations. Now, we are being asked to pretend that we do not see the evil that is right before our eyes.
People who think they are in the wrong body are not a sign of evolving humanity but sign of broken humanity. Such a person needs our compassion, not our affirmation. Affirming what is wrong will do no good. We should have learned that difficult lesson when we started ‘affirming’ that men and women are identical. We are not.
God’s design for marriage and family has now become controversial. Supporting and promoting God’s design is now considered hate speech. It is not. It is love speech. It is speaking the truth in love.
God’s design for physical, emotional, and spiritual intimacy between husband and wife is one of the most beautiful blessings in this age. It’s no surprise that the forces of evil want to demean and destroy it. To distort or erase God’s design for marriage and family is to distort or erase a testimony to God’s love.
Women are different. They have babies. They express love in a maternal way that is vital for the human race. Women are a beautiful and necessary part of God’s good creation. No man can be a woman. No woman should abandon her gender. We embrace God’s good design, promote it with love and confidence, and thank the Lord for his blessings.
May God bless his binary creation,
Brother Richard Foster